I bet you do with all that work you have had to do. I think a might be asking you a few more questions in the future, if that's ok!
With regards to the cross member, if you could get the part number, or any indication of what VW call it, that would be great.
How much did it cost you to buy?
Also, have you replaced the main front cross member, the bulky section behind the bumper? (sorry, not gen'd up on techinal words) I have seen you can get these from T4s RUS as well, about 180quid.
Cheers for all your help Andy